3/14/25 Forgiving as Christ Forgave

Takeaway: Forgiveness is an act of love.

Opening Prayer

Gracious Father, I come before You with a heart that longs to know You more. As I spend this time in Your Word, speak to me, and strengthen my faith. Help me to set aside distractions and focus on what You want to reveal. May this time of devotion draw me closer to You and shape me to walk in Your truth. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Reflection

Forgiveness is one of the hardest commands in Scripture, yet it is at the heart of the gospel. When Paul wrote to the Colossians, he reminded them that forgiveness is not an optional part of the Christian life—it is a defining characteristic. “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” This means that our model for forgiveness is not based on whether someone deserves it, whether they apologize, or whether we feel like forgiving. Instead, our standard is Jesus, who forgave us freely, completely, and undeservedly.

Holding on to unforgiveness is like carrying a heavy weight on our shoulders. It drains our joy, poisons our hearts, and keeps us trapped in bitterness. Jesus warned about this in the parable of the unforgiving servant (Matthew 18:21-35). The servant who had been forgiven an unpayable debt refused to forgive someone who owed him a small amount. In the end, his own unwillingness to forgive led to his downfall. This parable is a stark reminder that we have been forgiven more by God than we could ever be asked to forgive in others.

True forgiveness is not just about letting go of a grudge; it is an act of love. Colossians 3:13 reminds us that we are called to “bear with each other” and to forgive. This means showing patience, choosing kindness, and remembering that we, too, are in need of grace. As we reflect on how much Christ has forgiven us, we are empowered to extend that same grace to others.

Question

How can you take a step toward forgiveness today, even if reconciliation is not possible?

Application

• Choose to Forgive, Even When It’s Hard. Identify someone you need to forgive. Write down their name and pray for them and you.

• Extend Grace as You Have Received It. Write down how God has shown you grace in your own life. Use this reflection to remind yourself why you are called to forgive.

• Forgive Yourself. Read Romans 8:1 and remind yourself that you are fully forgiven.

Closing Prayer

Father, You have forgiven me more than I could ever deserve. Help me to extend that same forgiveness to others. When I struggle to let go of hurt, remind me of the grace You have shown me. Soften my heart and teach me to love as You love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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